I don't quite grasp this concept that when guys play or date numerous amount girls they are pimpin ,but if a girl does the same she is referred to as a slut. I decided to write about this because my brother walked in and I was listening to indigo vanity-I play games and he said,"Hahaha I bet that slut must have been played a lot of times." I had asked him why he said that.He said,"Because you can hella tell. When a female plays a guy is because they got played and their hearts broken many times so the only thing they can do is turn into sluts." I was like,"WTH??? Maybe they just want to do it because there not ready to get into a serious relationship or relationships aren't their thing."He responded with,"Mm,like I said BOP!"
Why is it that it's okay for males to do these things and talk about it like in raps,etc. but for women it is frowned upon? Some people said because women end up with consequences like for example ending up pregnant. But my brother called her slut for playing them, not taking in any sexual activity. Some other people said because it's more common for a girl to be the ones who are cheated on and get their heart broken and since it's kind of uncommon for guys to get their hearts broken, they get pity. I still don't know why this happens.
What also gets me mad is that it's not only men who get mad and talk bad about women who do this,It's also other women. Some women comment on this because their jealous or have different thoughts about how it should be handled or they were raised with different beliefs about how women should treat men. I don't think people should judge them for what or why they play guys because it's their decision and they don't know what those women have gone through.
I blogged about this Baby Momma!
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