Saturday, September 25, 2010

ilove you is an 8 letter word so is bullsh*t!

I remember one day I told Ivan that I had fallen in Love. He told me something that i just barely realized is actually true. He told me:
Love is fake.At the beginning I was like no but if you really think about it,it is.And it's not just my experience figure it out! How many times have you fallen in love? A couple of times,actually three.And out of those three they ended nowhere and your barely beginning this one! All love basically is you give someone all the love you have until they decided to hurt you or end it.Like life,love doesn't last forever.Some people all they do is wish to find love and have someone to call theirs and have beside them and the truth is some people never meet anyone or they become heart broken.How many people end up in divorce,how many people cheat,didn't they love the person?Maybe once but it went away,Love doesn't last forever!Love is just a word that someone made like all the other words.It's fake!It ends worse than how you begin,instead of happiness,it's hate and depression.
When he first sent me this message i was like pshhh nah he's just being a bitter hater.I didn't even want to take the time to re-read it or reflect upon it.My relationship with the guy ended because I didn't actually love him,I just said I loved him because I didn't want to hurt him.My previous relationships ended because we ended up playing each other or losing that once special spark.I should have listened to Ivan before.Every word he spoke was true.I occasionally did just want to have someone to call mine without actually having feelings towards them.Love does fade away.There have been various divorces and a lot of people do cheat on their supposed,"Amor." I'm not anti-love is just that i haven't seen proof of any long lasting love without any difficulties or problems.




5 comments:

  1. I responded to your blog!

    http://melissamasstuff.blogspot.com/2010/10/response-to-karen.html

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  2. i commented on this kareniqua
    http://rokhsorspointofview.blogspot.com/2010/09/amen-to-that-karen.html

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  3. I did a response to this! http://karisac.blogspot.com/2010/10/reiloveyou-8-letter-word-for-bullst.html

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  4. I responded to your post girl !
    http://ebonesspectacular.blogspot.com/2010/10/love-response-post.html

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  5. I did a response to this: http://kasiaiskesha.blogspot.com/2010/10/response-to-karen.html

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